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     As we are here in the year 2011, we will be opening another chapter in our book of life. We may be welcoming new people – new friends, and eventually new enemies. But let's just leave it here.

     Absolutely, new knowledge will be added to our brains. New clothes, new softwares (^_^), new mangas, and everything will be new. 

     Actually, these things are not really what I want to write down. It's just that I forgot the things I am thinking of. Perhaps, I can add them here if I can remember them, hopefully.

     Now, since we are talking about new year, it's not a surprise if we will be having our resolutions, right? I think most of us, specially the teens, will be having a list of ot, composed of DO's and DONT's, WILL's and WILL NOT's, so on and so forth. But come to think of it, my last year's new year's resolution was, “I will not be making resolutions anymore”. In contrary, it seems I want to make another one, though I can't think of any. How about you?

     Hmhm, new year, new year, new year. Yes, I remembered one. Let me ask you. What were your unforgettable experiences last year? I bet I know what you're thinkin' of. There's so many of them. Even me, I can't count them.

     “Three words, eight letters; say it and I’m yours”. Have you heard the preceding line from any lover you know? Maybe some of us may say ‘yes’, others says ‘no’, and else don’t even care. However, there are some who doesn’t know the meaning of that logical line which is the romantic phrase of “I Love You”. But, come to think of it, let’s ask ourselves with the query above.

     We are different beings with different views and opinions. Surely, we will arrive at unique answers if we are asked with that.

     As the perfect bond of union, love plays as the main ingredient of this relationship. Hearing those words being uttered by someone, and is being addressed to you, you feel nothing but enchantment. You feel secured, as you have someone to rely on, and confide in and trust. But mostly, if you hear those words, you simply feel the "cloud 9" effect. Even others will accept it that just hearing those words will be a guarantee that they are being loved.

     However, considering the adversaries, they say they just ham it up. They just don’t want those words being mouthed; but instead, prove it by means of action. That’s it, to show the action better than words, as what the saying “Action speaks louder than words” is about. It seems that they don’t care whether they perceive it orally or not, just as long as the love is being executed, it’s worth it.

     Still, the decision remains to the each individual who have their own stand. Just be certain that those words you hear are not of an ersatz.

        Love shares. Love waits. Love heals. Love conquers. Optimistically saying, it is true. Love almost dominates all, including happiness. But never forget that there is still one thing that love can do. Love hurts.

        When you love someone, you can have the audacity to do what you think is beneficial. You are eager to do things, which you think will help you to be drawn closer to him/her. Inspite of difficulties, you manage to continue, reaching the degree ofmartyrdom. But as an ardent lover, that’s nothing, literally. You’re strong and firm; you’re invulnerable.

         But, even the heftiest metal on earth has impuissance, and so you do. Trying to be strong outside, but deep inside, you’re smarting. It’s like, you and the one are not together, and worse, you depart from each other for no particular reason. Or you were once bonded, but you have to separate ways. You ignore things that you heard from people around you; you blind yourself from what you see from her doings. Those are not the reasons for you to halt.

        It is really painful, indeed. Yet, with a smile, you still decided to go and carry on, concealing one’s agony.

        Now, if you carry that burden to yourself, and still want to fight, maybe you can ask yourself, "How to deal when love hurts?". I will be referring you to a good friend of mine who have written something. Now, let this article give some light to your problem.